The thought that one day we'll meet someone in our lives worth keeping is what often keeps us searching for true love. A love that is endless and unconditional. A love that can withstand anything. A love that makes all of those past loves seem worth it because they led you to this final love.
Now in finding true love there is this crazy misconception that after you get together with this person everything will go smoothly. Like most things in life, it's just not that simple. There will be good times, there will be bad times and it's up to you both to make it work. What a lot of us lack in relationships seems to be communication. We don't know how to sit down and have a proper discussion without it turning into an argument. Now I'm not saying that there won't be arguments, because really no matter how close two people are there will be disagreements. What I am saying is that learning the proper way to communicate can make that love worth keeping.
On the other hand, we also lack listening skills, and I don't mean that in one ear and out the other kind of listening. You have to hear what they are saying and comprehend it because if you don't that is just as bad as not communicating at all.
Communication and listening go hand in hand to make a relationship work. No more pointing the finger or going to bed mad. Sit down and have a true heart to heart conversation. Those can make or break your relationship. I mean you never know your current love could in fact be your last love.
T. Neal | Cambridge, MD
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